Ahem, i finally have the courage to ask: Whats a stereotype? I'm tired of nodding my head like an idiot as though i understand whenever my friends mention the word in conversation.
And its okay if i jot down your tips? Thanks!
A stereotype is a certain type of characterization that isn't always based on reality. For example, here in America, there are some stereotypes about people of African descent that they're poor, smell bad, like rap, and indulge in violence and drugs. If you read modern American literature, or even watch American TV, you'll see "Gangster Blacks."
Stereotyping is a poor skill to utilize in real life, but it can be a good one to use for writing. It gives you quick access to various characters. The Shy Girl. The Tsundere. The Comic Foil.
Look at characters in anime. If you are well versed in anime, you'll start making connections between various characters, because they follow very similar personalities, and in many cases, similar character designs. Compare Rei Ayanami from Evangelion with Yuki Nagato from The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya. Shy, quiet, and strange girls with short hair.
Anyways, onto the meat and potatoes of this post.
1. Whenever writing i've noticed that people are fond of making their characters scream/swear out whatever they say or exclaim, and in the end most of the script looks like a swear fest.
Everything in moderation. I am aware of a book that exists somewhere out there which has a swear word in every sentence. However, it was written more as a challenge than as an attempt at literary mastery.
Just follow some basic guidelines on when to use swearing:
1. Exclamations.
2. Surprise/shock/astonishment
3. The very obvious anger issues
4. Emphasis. Swear words stand out a lot, and used properly, can emphasize an idea. "We're all going to die!" can be made to sound more important and urgent if you have the right character say "We're all going to *censored*ing die!"
Don't throw in swear words, and don't abuse them. Just like there are certain teenage girls who like to abuse the word "like." Who hasn't heard, or even read, a sentence that goes like this: "So I was like eating a sandwhich when like this totally hot guy came over and like, sat down next to me!"
In short, don't overuse words. Especially swear words.
I know many writers feel that they just HAVE to write after watching an awesome action scene on an anime/manga, what usually follows is a plotless, thin story that only concentrates on techniques and blood flying. This is not how a story is built, you don't just start a story with a showy bang unless you have to. When you start a story, its important that you have your characters in mind and a basic idea of how the story will progress.
Ah yes. Who hasn't watched an awesome action scene and written a story based on it?
Oh wait, I haven't. Action animes aren't my cup of tea. Now if you had changed that to said "Feel like they just have to write something after watching an awesome romantic scene...", but I digress.
Honestly though, when writing a story, we write what is interesting. When we are forced to wallow through writing boring stuff, we slow down. We want to get to that next part where all the action is, be it blood flying or girls kissing.
And the truth of the matter is: You can. You can put that pencil down on that boring chapter, and go write that awesome, exciting chapter. And once you're done writing that super awesome, exciting chapter, and gotten all pumped up, use that energy to go back and finish writing that boring chapter. You now even have the ability to put in some very interesting foreshadowing now.
However, if you're just writing that one action scene, there is something that we call that: Fanfic.
3. Be Dedicated to your writing, and even so, Expect failure. To all writers [And myself] no one will get anywhere if they expect to just sit around for the whole week, get an idea and write a little here or there and suddenly get acknowledged. No. There are times when you actually have to get serious with your writing and refuse yourself that break, that precious sleeping time, and most importantly, endure whenever you get trashed. Its been a long year for me, and i've finally spotted the fruits of my work, and thats after quite a few rejections and ignores.
Some good ideas mixed in with some seriously bad advice.
Here's a rule for you: You need to eat, sleep, drink, and piss. If you have satisfied those drives, only then should you satisfy your creative needs. A dead writer doesn't contribute much, and neither does a sick writer for that matter.
As far as letting ideas sit around: There are times when that is good, and times when that is bad. Currently on my back burner is an entire saga of stories. In the time I've had it on the back burner, I have explored that world in my mind in so many different ways, that I have a fuller idea of what will happen. I know who the characters are, what they like, and a full list of motivations. If I had started writing earlier, my story would have been nice, but it wouldn't have been as rich.
Right now, I'm writing Reverie. I'm in a bit of a slow part, and the next part will be slow as well, but I know there will be some awesome parts in the future. As I slowly write through it, paragraph by paragraph, I think ahead to the future. When I'm at lunch, I think of the story and contemplate its direction. How do I want the characters to be? To act? Do I want an old character to return, or should I create a new one? I run these questions through my mind constantly, and try new ideas out in my mind. I want to create the best story I can.
That said, my story writing is currently in hiatus. I have bigger issues to focus on, like finals this week. My story and my ideas will wait for me for when I do have the time to devote myself, and they will be better because I did.
The next part that you mention is criticism: Welcome to the real world! If you get your story published, you will have people criticizing your story so much it won't be funny. You'll find fans, you'll find detractors, you'll even find a few crazy people who might start building a shrine for you in their closet. Be like the grass: Firm, but flexible.
4. If your constantly depressed, annoyed, stressed whenever you write, find yourself always chewing paper and cussing, then maybe you have to change genre. I found myself struggling to write deep sci-fi, but in truth i don't have the technical details for it. Even if your not experiencing any troubles, its good to decide which genre interests you best. Its possible to write many different stories, but having a special field pays off.
I'm not sure that I agree with you here. I intentionally write alternative stories to explore new genres, and I can't say that I found myself frustrated, annoyed, depressed, or any of the other foul moods you described. It's sound more like the fact that you hate the story. I have come up with some horrible ideas for stories, and at some point I abandoned trying to write them.
As far as knowing what genres you like the best, that is very good advice. My strongest genres for writing are: Romance, Tragedy, and Fantasy. But I have dabbled in Comedy/Parody/Satire, Sci-Fi, Action/Adventure, Adult, and many other genres. They were all good exercises. I'd suggest everyone who wants to be a writer to take the odd time here and there and write a short story in a different genre than what you are accustomed to.
As far as genres in which you are unfamiliar with, there are many literary tricks in place to mask lack of technical knowledge. Barring that, many good writers utilize books, the internet, and even professionals as resources for technical details if they so need it. If you are writing a technical story, then Wolfram Alpha is a very good resource. I've gotten estimates on the size of the universe from it, which is useful if you're writing a space drama.
5. If you act like a lone wolf when writing, you usually die. I found myself thinking i'm on top of the world one time, and wasn't even researching or regarding my friends comments about my stories, and i had a horrific month of critiscism. I almost quit writing until i decided to follow advice, however annoying it seemed. It turned out okay. Its hard to admit defeat, i know, but its worth it.
Be humble, and others will be apt to humble you.
The creative community is a very vicious community to be a part of. There is a lot of competition, and as such the best way to secure help is to partner up with others and help each other. There are lone wolves, certainly, but as you pointed out, they are frowned upon somewhat.