Women, Men, Sexuality and other bull

[Fallen Kite]

I know I'm not supposed to just break in and rip everything apart, like som kind of feelings spoiling monster But the conversation really interested me 

Note that I have absolutely NO experince with this kind of stuff at all, since I'm the answer to the maximum most asocial existence in world (You know what I mean) <- actually I have... But never gf though..

I have experienced the first part (Everyday half a year ), but because she had a boyfriend (Too embaressed to tell why she chose him lol) and because I didn't really made an approach, nothing really happended 

Okay whatever ^^- I think: Strike while the iron is hot,  An easy thing to say, though it's a very problematic thing to do  :secret:
She's definintly liking you (in some way at least Hugging might be a normal thing for her, but she's hugging you more, and if it is for teasing, that's only a good sign)

And she kinda asks if you're looking for a girlfriend (indirectly) :) Or maybe she has a friend 

OR it might be that she only wants a friend she can be with in another way, than her other friends 

[Coryn]

umm i think kites trying to say "wait for a little bit to see what happens then go for it and if it doesnt work out see if she knows anybody that might like you"

but yeah women are confusing as hell. i was in the same situation as you just one year ago tzefa. random girl i knew suddenly got very close to me and started doing the huggy lovey thing. one day she randomly came into class and sat on my lap instead of her own seat which was right next to em. i felt like i was in an ecchi or something. i asked her out shortly after and got sent straight to the friend zone. her reason? there was this guy she met like twice in a town 50 miles away that she had already asked out twice and was turned down both times but she doesnt want to give up yet.
i wont go into detail of what happened afterwards but it wasnt pretty.

moral of the story. if it goes south just dont worry about it and just move on with your life. if she isnt interested, you probably wont be able to change her mind. 

[Fallen Kite]

Well MIGHT be that she like you and MIGHT be that she doesn't  Try ask what type of men/boys she prefer  :laughing11:

[Coryn]

i think you missed the entire point of my post kite.

[Tzefa]

Man life is weird... you ask for lemons and you get apple juice  on a side note can anybody else rage so that this thread doesn't feel like a thread dedicated to helping Tzefa fix his love issues?

[SaiHawkeye]

Sure, I can rage.





I just don't feel like it right now.

[Tzefa]

Well that was unhelpful 

[Coryn]

my rage is pretty much gone with that post i made. sure other *censored*s happened before. but thats in the past for me.

[Tzefa]

Well i feel lonely sitting here and monologing for paragraphs on end about my troubles  :Embarrassed:

[Robs_ugly_artwork]

Try ask what type of men/boys she prefer 

Kite has made a very good point by saying that..

you see if you were to go out of your way and ask her questions like that (at the appropriate time) it would not only show her confidence (a side that she never seen before.. which is a test for her, as well as for you) it would also answer all your questions without the conversation turning awkward or weird.. it would be like a normal conversation to her.. but, to you it would mean a whole lot..

by answering your questions i mean... there's only 2 ways she'll answer it.. 1) she'll describe a man who is much like yourself or 2) somebody totally different entirely.. once this happens you'll know for sure what her intentions are .. whether it's just friends, she like you, or she likes someone else .. one simple meaningless question can answer so much.. it's just up to you to try


everyone has their own set of problems/issues .. it's just that yours seem the most interesting ATM,  :laughing11: hahaha!!

-Rob

ps. i forgot to mention that a women's body language say's a lot as well .. sometimes it says more than any words could say .. be very aware and be sure to watch out for that.. good luck

[Lassiter]

Girls are confusing, especially in high school. Just remember that no matter what the outcome of your situation is you probally won't end up marrying this girl. You're still young and the world is full of all sorts of diffrent girls, even if this doesn't work out don't let it get you down, there's a ton of opportunity out there.

You should look at life, especially when it involves girls, as a buffet. There's all sorts of food on the buffet, some of it is really boring and some of it is really unique and exotic. Sample as much as you can whenever you can and eventually you'll find something that is absolutely delicious and you can't do without. But the more you sample the better prepared you are for when you find that perfect dish.

[Coryn]

to expand on the metaphor: also remember that the more you sample the higher the chance you'll wake up the next morning with food poisoning

[Fallen Kite]

to expand on the metaphor: also remember that the more you sample the higher the chance you'll wake up the next morning with food poisoning

Yeah, and I'm pretty afraid of puking...   

[Tzefa]

Meh my brothers gf he met in his second year of highschool, hes 22 now and there still going so as far as im concerned Screw the odds, whatever will come of this i welcome it, Anyways since you people seem so excited to know whats happening   it seems life gave me some lemons... which proceeded to be turned into Apple juice   as the girl has been sick... but i met another girl who ive become friendly with rather quickly.... and she reads D grey-man   so as far as im concerned this event made me at least 1 new friend so far

[Robs_ugly_artwork]

cool congrats.. you found a cool friend who has the same interests as you do..

QUESTION: to the male members of this forum..

Do you guy's feel that you need a women in your life (now, eventually, whatever) or do you feel like you can go on living a happy life without a female companion (GF,wife, FTF, whatever)??

please take the time and explain your answer.. i really want to know

thanks

-Rob