Women, Men, Sexuality and other bull

[Operative13]

That's to be expected.

It's a pretty common sight with introverted guys. Not many know how relationships work, let alone be in one. They say it's better you learn to be in a relationship early so that you don't make the same mistakes later in life. Some simply never get the chance. 

[Robin Rain]

It's more or less the same for introverted girls too (like me). I mean... I've dated technically, but I've never been on a "date". Wasn't in a relationship long enough to learn the ropes at all.

[Coach Fro]

*Checks Email*

Email: GigglyGirl sent you a message on Zoosk! Read her message.

Me: Ha! Yeah Right!

*Clicks link*

Me: Oh wow, she actually sent me a message.

*Tries to read message*

Zoosk website: Subscribe to see what she said and reply back.

*Throws phone at the wall* 

[Coryn]

That's the trade-off isn't it? Good luck mate.

[Coach Fro]

My zoosk account is hella years old and I've pretty much forgotten about it. Every now and then though, I would get those "hey, this girl just sent you a message" emails, and because my curious nature always win over my logical reasoning side, I fall for the bait every time.

Some would say I'm a hopeless romantic. To be brutally honest with myself, though, I personally think I'm just stupid at times.

[Coryn]

You just gotta find a slightly stupid girl then 

But I know what you mean. I've had some luck on match recently, but again, you gotta pay. At this point though, online is just the best option. When you're busy with work and none of your friends know anyone, what's a guy to do? I don't believe in the online dating stigma, but the prices are a bit over the top.

[Coach Fro]

Agreed. Online dating is definitely a viable choice for people with limited social opportunities to find and meet someone, but the prices can get unreasonable. I mean yeah, the people who make these sites for us need their money, but man $29.95 for a one month Zoosk subscription is freaking bananas dawg! I mean they got cheaper options, but the fact that option is even there to begin with is like crazy to me. 

[Coach Fro]

So I'm starting to feel like older woman are naturally attracted to me. I've been in some situations before where an older woman has expressed some sort of interest in me, but I've never paid it too much attention until recently. This chick who works in a different department than I do kinda randomly offered me her number after a brief conversation. Granted, we sort of talked casually before then, but I was still surprised by how quickly it happened.


Of course, this all can be chalked up to coincidence. Normally I would overthink this kind of ish, but I know there's not much to it really. Certain woman find me attractive, and certain woman don't. It just so happens to be older woman in this case.

Which, by the way, I don't mind at all since older woman already know what they and don't mess around when it comes to getting what they want. And I, for one, can appreciate that. 

[Coryn]

I mean good for you man. If you find what people are attracted to you, it makes it that much easier to find the confidence in those areas that you want. Congrats!