And kage, Relationships aren't all bad. They are part of the human experience. They aren't perfect and none ever will be. Still, they are meant to be more enjoyable than painful, so if you ever find yourself miserable in one get out.
And finally, Lego. Dude respect to you for asking the girl out, that takes a lot more courage than many have. You'll feel hurt, your pride and self esteem will undoubtedly take a hit but you'll get through it dude. Plus when you do and another girl you like comes along, you will have the bottle to ask her out too