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Author Topic: Do you easily cut ties with your friends/family?  (Read 34 times)

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Do you easily cut ties with your friends/family?
« on: December 07, 2017, 11:47:50 AM »
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Re: Do you easily cut ties with your friends/family?
« Reply #1 on: December 07, 2017, 11:53:28 AM »
I once completely cut ties with my sister at uni, we were very different people which wasn't helped by our parents being a bit... arbitary in trying to treat us fairly. There was no contact between me and her for two years, not even birthday cards.

Then when I came home and my sister started uni, she went through quite a bit of stress. I eventually helped her deal with it and now we're on alright terms again. She doesn't like to show her feelings though so she's always embarrased when I talk to her now  :santa:

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Re: Do you easily cut ties with your friends/family?
« Reply #2 on: December 07, 2017, 11:54:52 AM »
Well family is family, so no. I love everyone in my family, it would take something very intense for me to want to "cut ties" with someone. The family, meaning all my relatives, is the most important to me. Even if I am not close to many.

But friends, stuff like that happens over time I find. There are people who stick around and those who just drift naturally. After grade school, middle school and high school anyone who is still left is a real friend I think. Everyone along the way just kind of, falls of out contact naturally where no one makes an effort to stay connected, it's just like well we're going to different schools now so bye. I had many great friends since kindergarten whom I just stopped talking to the last day of grade 6 because, well it just happens so whatever.

Friends are friends, they come and go. Good friends you hope don't go, even if it is maybe bound to happen naturally over time. I don't have intense friendships where I am SOOO CLOSE to someone, my friends are sometimes distant, but they are still people I care about ultimately. But family is forever. Like it or not...
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Re: Do you easily cut ties with your friends/family?
« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2017, 01:59:35 PM »
If I don’t see someone for 2 weeks, they are dead to me. I was there at the beginning of MySpace (haha old) and Facebook. I thought it was a fad. Now I’m too embarresed to start. So everyone I knew, Is dead to me.

Family? I have no family. Except my bro. I already told everyone I hate them but they still talk to me when they come over. Plus, my mom is a troll on Facebook. She loves starting fights with her sisters. It’s funny because they always say, just lkill yourself b- word.

I haven’t even seen my dad in 15 years. It’s not that I hate him. I just don’t want to see him because he lives too far. And I don’t want to drive the 4 hours to get there and the 4 hours to get back.
But don’t mistake this for being mean. I’m really a nice person.