Nuuuu!!!! The conversation has started!
I have NO CLUE where I stand on this anymore. I have always been attracted to men and women, BUT my religion
was pretty clear on that. So I always thought there was something REALLY screwed up with me.
So I have allot of love for people who "came out of the closet". I get a lot of hate from my christian friends for it... and my family.
I still never told them how
I have felt personally, I'm pretty sure they took the hint though. I remember last year my mom saying "you're straight though, cause you're married." As if my marrying a man made me straight... I guess in her mind if I married a woman I would be a lesbian?
Anyways... It's all confusing. And I still haven't said anything to my family... not even my husband. I'm sure that conversation would go REALLY well... along with the one about not considering myself a christian OR messianic.
I keep telling myself "who needs to know anyway?"
I have read several articles that say there is a "gay gene", that it was the parent that carried the gene, but the child of that person would be homosexual. That means that people who carry the gene are having kids. Also, you have to remember that we carry a lot of genes that are just not being expressed.
I think the research in that area is really interesting.