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break Room / Re: Would you be open on the idea of a blind date?
« on: September 22, 2017, 02:54:20 PM »
Yes, the idea of a blind date seems...simply painful for me. I guess I put too much value on romantic things. I'm not into the idea of dating and being with multiple girls. "Then how do you find this right girl?" I dunno, if I do I do, if I don't oh well. An unrealistic ideal, but my ideal regardless haha.


I don't think it is unrealistic, it's kinda cute and romantic tbh~!

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break Room / Re: Would you be open on the idea of a blind date?
« on: September 22, 2017, 02:30:39 PM »

For me that is impossible, I am too shy to even speak with someone random, going to one is completely impossible for me~



I think it really comes down to who's setting up the date, and how much you trust them.


I am not sure about that, I mean, even if you trust the one setting it up, it is still impossible for them to know your preferences, imo.

Nah.

I've never been on a date nor asked anyone out and I don't plan to unless I find the right girl. So, never but it's the way things go.


So, you wouldn't because of how important you want to date someone you actually loves rather than going in blindly?

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break Room / Would you be open on the idea of a blind date?
« on: September 22, 2017, 01:30:20 PM »
^^

Would you go on a date with a total stranger?
Why would you or why you would not?


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break Room / What's your main pet peeve?
« on: September 21, 2017, 12:19:12 PM »

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Movies and TV shows / Re: Save me (KDrama)
« on: September 20, 2017, 11:45:42 AM »
Finally Sang-Mi's mother as return to normal and at the same time Sang-Hwan mother too~

I am rooting for a Sang-Mi x Dong-Cheol~

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Movies and TV shows / Re: Save me (KDrama)
« on: September 14, 2017, 02:38:26 PM »
Interesting. Dong-Cheol still own their cult~?
I cannot wait for the next episode~!

Sang-Mi's mother was near to meet Sang-Mi back, I really hate apostle Kang...

What is Baek doing to Sang-Mi...

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Movies and TV shows / Re: Save me (KDrama)
« on: September 13, 2017, 05:39:15 PM »
Sang-Hwan's father is a real jerk, how can ge ask his wife to never wake up again? and he had to brought Baek to the house...

Something will happen to Dong-Cheol, I swear!

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Comics and other Gallery / Re: Unohana's work!
« on: September 12, 2017, 03:26:41 PM »
I am starting a manga for the forum! I will post the character during upcoming weeks~

Thank you for all your supports!

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Manga Art Gallery / Re: Devola's Stuff
« on: September 08, 2017, 03:28:48 PM »
Oh, those are very well made, I like how you use the shading on the first one~

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break Room / Re: Have you ever been asked out by a teacher?
« on: September 08, 2017, 02:44:54 PM »
Just an update on the situation.

I am allowed to go to another french class~! YaY!

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Movies and TV shows / Re: Save me (KDrama)
« on: September 08, 2017, 02:41:26 PM »
Sang-Mi brought Dong-Cheol and Sang-Hwan back together~

The cult is persistent but I hope they all suffer!

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break Room / Re: Have you ever been asked out by a teacher?
« on: September 07, 2017, 11:49:35 AM »
I hope that things clear up for you and that you'll be able to transfer into another French class.

Even at the University level, it is in fact very inappropriate for his position, at least speaking from the United States. Typically it's expected to not even make an advance until the student has graduated the University entirely and no longer has that "student" status due to how the student-teacher dynamic is supposed to work, so it frustrates me a lot that he did such a thing. At the very least, I believe that the student may not be enrolled in any of your courses in order for such things to be permissible, but just because it may or may not technically "be against the rules" is hardly the problem here. The problem is that he made you uncomfortable, and that in and of itself is unprofessional and not at all how teaching works.

Ugh, I'm just...literally this emoji: >:(



Thank you~

I have requested a transfer and I was told that they would see what they can do.
Hopefully it will be approved.

After my french class ended in the most normal way possible, my teacher came to me and asked me if I was avaiable after school for a "guidance". (That's like forcing someone to say yes...)

The fact that he exploited his position as a teacher by calling it "guidance" is the really concerning part... that HAS to be grounds for SOME kind of punishment. I mean there's asking someone out and then there's abusing your position to force someone into an uncomfortable situation.


It definetly is an abuse and hopefully I can get transfered out of his class.

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break Room / Re: Have you ever been asked out by a teacher?
« on: September 06, 2017, 04:43:09 PM »
It does matter to me and all of you are helping me out~

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Movies and TV shows / Re: Save me (KDrama)
« on: September 06, 2017, 11:17:46 AM »
Sang-Mi is really strong, I would have break down if everyone decided to never listen to me...

The cult just does whatever they want with the town, even the police isn't doing much to help, I guess in a small country town, people with the biggest influence as more rights over the town.

This is definetly my favorite drama so far~

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break Room / Re: Have you ever been asked out by a teacher?
« on: September 06, 2017, 10:56:26 AM »
Get the authorities involved right now. That behavior is unprofessional and unacceptable within the teaching career. As a future teacher, I would deck that sonnuva b*tch in the face. All you have to say is that he requested to talk with you alone off of school grounds and that it made you uncomfortable and if he retaliates in any way, most places in the world have something in place for him to be fired for that form of discrimination.


I am uncomfortable with it and I did felt forced to attend that "guidance" of his, yet by having the authorities involved would make me more stressed, I will try to get transfered in another class.

I don't think that I will be able to get back and study in this kind of environment tbh.

Since you are 20, this is a college class, correct? Drop that mofo, immediately. It's before the drop date for most universities, so you have time. If you need the class this semester, try to see if you can enroll for an eight week course with another teacher. Imo, unless he said what he said in a threatening way or made some physical advance or otherwise intentionally violated your safety, I don't necessarily see anything wrong with what he did. You are both adults. However, it is incredibly understandable that you are uncomfortable with it, and you have enough stress to deal with in college. If you drop the class, he should get the message that you aren't interested and neither will have to deal with the other after the fact. In that sense, it is best for both parties. If he continues to bother you, that is stalking and you should contact the authorities.

If, like we all have done at some point in our lives, you have put a different age than your own on your profile, and are in high school or middle school, see Mahlua's advice.


Yes, I am in college~
I am thinking of transfering in a new french class tbh, for personal reasons I cannot afford to drop any classes at the moment.

I think that it is wrong for him to ask me out knowing that he is my teacher, should a teacher behave like that and make me feel more stressed than what I am already putting up with college? Dunno but I think that there is a proper way for things to be in a school.

Right off the bat, I can say this guy is not a good person. First he asks for time after school for "guidance" - already something misleading - then he begins to go about how he's always looking your way and having "thoughts"... I don't care how many times romance movies show that type of behavior, that act is creepy. If this was a different situation, I would have said otherwise, but this one is not acceptable.

There's a reason it is forbidden to have student-teacher relationships and that's because of bias. The moment there is some sort of relationship, it disrupts the academic environment and damages people's ability to learn. Not just yourself, but other people as well. It was stupid of him to even consider asking that question and much more so to use his authority to mislead you about your meeting.

Like I said, had it been any other situation, I would have said otherwise, but if I were the one-in-charge, I'd have the man investigated. Doesn't matter if it's one person out of a thousand teachers asking once, there is a standard that every teacher uphold their pledge on maintaining an academic environment among their pupils. If this idiot can't even keep his mouth shut for that, I have to question his motive for teaching.  :ninja:


I really felt like running away, either he just thought that it might not be a big deal or he is a .... anyway.

I totally agree with you~


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