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Title: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: YoUr EyEs on July 19, 2018, 01:44:53 PM
I got booed by the childrens there when I was attempting to read them a story that I wrote for them.
Obviously, they didn't like it and in the end, I was booed by them...


Not sure this needed a thread but, you know me...
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 19, 2018, 01:49:53 PM
And this is why I hate small children. :push: Ungrateful little buggers.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: YoUr EyEs on July 19, 2018, 01:54:04 PM
And this is why I hate small children. :push: Ungrateful little buggers.

The disrespect was much more than what I expected from them, I mean, I knew that was story wasn't good to begin with but, they could at least not do this kind of thing.

I am not fond of children either... They make me so depress.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 19, 2018, 01:56:54 PM
Small children just make my anxiety skyrocket, and then they're incredibly known for saying and doing things that frankly don't make sense to anyone but them, which makes a mess for those of us who have the ability to use logical thinking.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: YoUr EyEs on July 19, 2018, 02:03:10 PM
Small children just make my anxiety skyrocket, and then they're incredibly known for saying and doing things that frankly don't make sense to anyone but them, which makes a mess for those of us who have the ability to use logical thinking.

I second that. At least, now I know that I don't have to try liking them anymore, I tried too much.

It's hard to think that, nowadays, we can't even yell at them without people giving off stares...
Logic isn't the childrens strong suit.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: Coryn on July 19, 2018, 09:36:33 PM
That definitely sucks. Children are a pain, but they're still learning how to be people. It's natural, and they aren't all likely to be monsters once they've self actualized.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: evand498 on July 19, 2018, 10:53:46 PM
Some children are immature I mean there is a lot of immaturity to our society.
When I was young kids pick on me, they really don't know how to fit into society.
In the same way kids are sometimes nice to be around.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: YoUr EyEs on July 20, 2018, 03:27:25 PM
That definitely sucks. Children are a pain, but they're still learning how to be people. It's natural, and they aren't all likely to be monsters once they've self actualized.

I know but, I can't like them, I have a lot of bad memories already by dealing with them lol.

Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 20, 2018, 03:33:18 PM
Yeah they can get my approval when they actually get actualized, lol, not while they're still being little buggers.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: suuper-san on July 20, 2018, 05:23:10 PM
you have my sympathy. kids can be heartless sometimes, but at least they are usually honest. If you ever want a review you know where to go. Ask them what they would write instead and make money off it.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: YoUr EyEs on July 24, 2018, 05:49:01 PM
Yeah they can get my approval when they actually get actualized, lol, not while they're still being little buggers.

I second that lol

you have my sympathy. kids can be heartless sometimes, but at least they are usually honest. If you ever want a review you know where to go. Ask them what they would write instead and make money off it.

I should have asked these monsters about that lol, I will be sure to remember next time
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: 50 Words for Paipis on July 24, 2018, 11:51:00 PM
That's just a weird thing for small children to do. How old were they again?
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: DeAngelus on July 25, 2018, 01:00:16 AM
Guys, don't just go hating on children just because their unfiltered honesty... I find that savagely adorable.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 25, 2018, 09:04:59 AM
It's not just their unfiltered honesty. For me, it's that they're small little destructive germbags that just happen to be the right height for me to turn and hit their eye with my hand or elbow if I don't see them (which I usually don't, since they're far below eye level). The way they walk and run also just freaks me out. Like, do they not have knees? They also tend to even have no concept of volume control and their voices usually hurt my ears. Kinda hard to keep your cool when you feel like your eardrums are being stabbed over and over again.

All in all, they're too stressful for me to ever find cute. I like having my anxiety at a manageable level--like, you know, a level where deep breathing isn't painful. Not even exaggerating there. I worked at an afterschool program for a few months and I would get lightheaded around the small children because my body would automatically switch to shallow breathing.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: 50 Words for Paipis on July 25, 2018, 10:32:59 AM
I understand where you're coming from, and you're definitely not alone in that view, but your anxiety is not their fault (or yours).

I won't tell you that you need to spend all your time around small children, but it's not helpful to anyone to dehumanize them with epithets like "germbags." This is prejudice against an entire demographic. Pay in mind that while they have had less time to figure out how to express themselves, they have their own microcosms as real and vivid as ours. Mental patience as well as verbal patience is essential.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 25, 2018, 11:08:28 AM
I'm well aware that they are far more than most people give them credit for, but they simply aren't safe to be around, and it's mostly because they aren't fully actualized. I'm not going to pretend to like people who are a direct danger to me. Little kids seem to always want to touch me and yell about everything. When they stop doing that, maybe I'll think about building a bridge with them. Since that's an unrealistic expectation, I'll happy go to another room when small children are involved. No thank you. I value breathing more than trying to forge a bond with people who make breathing difficult.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: 50 Words for Paipis on July 25, 2018, 01:25:51 PM
You've pretty much stated outright, though, that the defining factor in your situation is your anxiety about loud noises and uncleanliness. It's like an allergy. You can be allergic to cats, and recognize that allergy and that it's not necessarily your fault, without actively disliking cats or thinking that they are universally dangerous. You don't have to make that allergy into something more than it is. It's not about pretending to like them; it's about challenging that internal dislike that would necessitate said pretense. And it's up to your discretion as to what to do about that allergy, whether you try to build an immunity to it or just avoid cats, but you can't pin that allergy on cats. They don't know any better than to have high levels of dander.

On the uncleanliness factor, too, it's not as if adults, who eat ass, masturbate without washing their hands, have nocturnal emissions, menstrate, lick their fingers when they turn pages, and brush teeth and put on eye makeup in bathrooms full of fecal matter are really cleaner than kids who pick their nose or suck their thumb or put gum on things. Uncleanliness is pretty much a given if you have a body at all.
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: suuper-san on July 25, 2018, 02:03:19 PM
@papis I think I have an adult fobia now thanks >_<

@mahlua that sounds quite bad, anxiety can be a pain to reduce or remove once you get it. Try not to think of children with such bad terms though, as that can impact worse on your anxiety. Sorry you have to deal with that.

on a similar note I hear a lot of people with arachnophobia say spiders are ugly, but they are really pretty to me. I still jump on top of a chair if one runs towards me, but it helps to not add extra negativity :P
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: Operative13 on July 25, 2018, 02:19:32 PM
When I volunteered at a youth center back in the days, one of the girls that volunteered with me said she didn't like kids. One of the kids then asked why? "You used to be us," the little girl said. It's funny because I used to say the same thing when I myself was a kid. We say we grow up, but in truth, we really haven't changed much from what we were as kids ourselves. The only thing that's changed is the things we were accustomed to as kids became "dull." We became more infatuated with things that had more "substance" behind it.

It's nothing more than the realization that kids don't have the same "life" experience as you do, and so don't understand the "substance" that you understand. Socializing? Pop References? Manners? All the things you as an adult consider "common sense" is foreign to a newborn who has never heard, let alone experience this "common sense" thing. Trust me that when you find a kid that knows the same as you and acts like you, you'll be best buds in no one. Then again, that goes for everyone. Only it's much harder for kids since they won't have the same interests as you as a given.  :-X
Title: Re: I got booed at an hospital
Post by: MahluaandMilk on July 25, 2018, 03:43:00 PM
I understand what y'all are trying to say about the whole "don't blame the kids for it" thing...

But I'm not changing my mind. Small children are gross. This is just one example of it. I hated kids even when I was one, and I see no gain for me personally to try to like them. It's simple: You mess with my anxiety or do things to instigate it, I'm not going to be around you longer than I have to be.

(Edit: Gotta note the irony here that the general opinion here is that it's cute when kids are brutally honest about they don't like, but when I do it everyone tells me to chill or try not to be so harsh. That's another thing you can add to the list of things I hate. If it ain't cute when an adult does it, then it just ain't cute. Period.)